Now, I've had a number of friends who've been recommending this show to me for years. Invariably, they've all
said the same thing: “ You've gotta watch this show, it’s great! This one
character, Sheldon, is exactly like
you.” I've decided to take this as a compliment.
For those of you unfamiliar with the
show, Sheldon Cooper is a young genius (I make no claim of similarity here) who
has a lot of peculiarities – he has a specific spot on the couch that he has to
sit in, he is extremely sensitive about germs (don’t you dare touch his food!)
and every day of the week has a specific theme that he needs to follow. In
other words, I can relate to him a lot.
This
has given me an immense admiration for Jim Parsons (the actor), Chuck Lorre
(the writer) and Bill Prady (the other writer) for the amount of research they've put into creating this extremely idiosyncratic character. I'm sure a
lot of people watch this show and think, “Haha, this guy’s funny, but no one is
actually this weird!” while I'm watching it and saying (yes, saying, you can
ask my wife), “He understands me!” I may be alone in thinking this, but I find
it extremely impressive when writers and actors can create a character so odd
that is still real enough that someone with some of the same quirks as the
character can relate. That being said, while I understand where Sheldon is
coming from, I've never been quite as bad as him – something for which I'm sure
my entire family is extremely thankful.
I'm sure you’re wondering where I'm going with all of this and, quite frankly, so am I. Probably the best thing I
can do now is point out the phenomenal amount of research that needs to go into
any writing project. When I started off writing, I simply made everything up as
I went along. I write fantasy, that’s what I'm supposed to do, right? It’s not
quite that simple though. What if I were to write about how fast someone was travelling on a horse and a horse enthusiast came along and read my book? The
whole believability could be compromised by a single inaccurate detail. As a result, I've found myself researching the oddest things – from marching speeds to
mythological and modern fantasy versions of creatures to what plants grow in
what environments in what seasons. It’s amazing how many details there are that
can make or break a good story.
In conclusion, if you have access to
it, I advise watching The Big Bang Theory; it is an excellent show. While
you’re watching, you should also imagine what it’s like to live with Sheldon so
you can feel sorry for my wife. Also, if you are watching the show on DVD, I
suggest pausing on the white screen filled with words that appears for a moment
after the credits. These are “vanity cards” written by Chuck Lorre and, in my
opinion, are well worth the time to read.
As Jonathan's mother, I can say that I am grateful that Jonathan has found in Colleen a life-partner who has the patience and understanding to choose to put up with the challenges of living with him. He certainly has idiosyncrasies, but he is also a gifted and creative young man with high values and a strength of character and integrity seldom found. I believe most of us hope to find people in our lives who will accept the frustrating parts of our being along with all the goodness of who we are and what we offer to a relationship and to the world. I don't imagine any one of us is "perfect" or "normal".
ReplyDeleteI guess I should watch Big Bang Theory somewhere along the way, eh?